Our society is largely based on the perception bigger is better. It applies to almost everything, cars, houses, your net wealth, how big your breast are, etc. It is certainly not sensible, but when has logic ever stop anyone?
hence i said it is a misconception.. logic isn't designed to stop anyone.. it's just there to make you think.. and whatever you do after those thoughts is self explanatory...
vonnie;32478 said:
I think all guys like talking about this cuz it's a tool they wish they knew how to use ;)
sure initial attraction made be imprinted in our minds through years maturing and development of what we prefer, but you all seem to forget that girls, especially young girls are easily influenced and if you know what buttons to push, you can create attraction
The reason why there seems to be less white women attracted to asian guys is because girls in general are attracted to alpha males, and asians in many cases look the complete opposite ;) I believe its mostly attributed to the way we're brought up, if you look in magazines, turn on a TV, watch movies, any media that portrays beauty and tells us what is beautiful, they're all white, as you grow up you're unconciously fed all this since western media has been the dominant and leading trend setter for glam
personally, i went to a high school where the majority of every1 was white, and iuno why but just growing the majority of my friends weren't asian, the ones I spent time with at least, and I get a lot of attention from white women because I'm confident
A lot of asian guys are quite shy, which may lead to less interaction with people/ less friends - especially outside of their circle of asian friends, which often correlates directly with lack of confidence, and as long as you're confident, ppl will be attracted to you, not just women
Proof of my claim is that growing up and goign to school, especially the younger ages like preschool and early grade school, all the girls that I liked and in turn liked me back were in fact white, and when ur a kid ur innocent and you don't put up walls and try and fit into what is 'socailly acceptable'
which is why you see that in cities with a high influx of cbc or abc's - vancouver, san fran, new york etc, you see so many more interacial dating between asian men and white women because asian culture is much more exposed, give it time, every1 will eventually be beige
and about size, a womens vag is most sensitive about 2 inches in, just like the head of the penis, its not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean that being said.. it doesnt always hold true
its all about finding a right fit, some girls vag's are tighter some are wider some are deeper etc etc, if your wang curves in the right places and hits the right spots and is a good fit, size definately goes out the window
if a girl can get off with her fingers, she can get off with ur dick, unless ur dick is the size of my pinky
That "most sensetive at the front" stuff is true, but misleading. Yes, that is where the majority of the nerve-endings are clustered, but that's also true of the penis. Most are on the head or just below. Yet, as a guy, you would like to go deeper than that, right? Is the same for a woman. It's not just about nerve stimulation. It makes sense from a purely evolutionary perspective, that a woman would want a man to be as deep as possible when he ejaculates, to make conception that slight bit more likely.
There's a physical imperitive in an aroused woman to be "full," and a psychological one, as well. Just as a guy enjoys deep-throat even though pure nerve-analasys would suggest that he'd only like getting head.
All this "motion of the ocean" stuff is largely an excuse made by insecure men. Size is most definitely not everything, not even close. But it does matter.
if a girl can't deepthroat, it doesn't make her suck at giving head if a guy can't go all the way in, it doesnt make him a bad lover
ive spoke with enough women to know that they would prefer a guy who might be smaller but knew how to fuck then an oversized meathead that just jabs it in
I agree that size does matter, but not to the extent that most guys feel it does, espcially if theyre small, theres no sense in feeling inadequate about something thats not in their control
Some of you fools sound like you're still in HS. The racism in this thread is astounding. Just goes to show how many closet racists there are in this city. Yo Triple, what are you so buttsore about with Asians? Is it cause you mad that you see so many Asians in Vancouver or did some Asian cat exchange some fuck faces with your girl? You mad son, jus admit it. Best not post your picture, if I see you on campus, you [Not happening - Morro]
Mod edit: Try to bear in mind that the vast, vast majority of this thread is said tongue-in-cheek. This forum meets up semi-regularly, and most of the posters like each other. I appreciate that as a newer poster you might not be able to tell jokes from serious comments, but regardless: any more physical threats, and you're gone.
dude you don't have to act tough online to compensate for your small penis, accepting it is the first step.
and you don't need to see my face to find me at campus, just look for the white guy with the shaved head and the black swastika tattoo on the back of my head... i don't think anyone else at SFU has the same thing
perhaps you're the one who's still in HS to think that racism doesn't exist.. if you have a problem with it then i suggest you should go make a difference in the real world as opposed to a virtual one.. this is an internet forum.. stop taking things so seriously..
siuying I hope you ain't Asian. I do make a difference you don't know me, don't judge me. It's just these two faced people, if I see any of you in real life, no way in hell you're gonna say this stuff to my face. In fact I wish you would, just come out. If you got something against Asians, go public, don't hide at home flaming them on an university internet forum.
Morro - are you really tryna play the stuff that Triple says are jokes? He pretty much pops in every thread to comment something negative towards the entire Asian race. Oh wait, maybe it's cause you're also white? Start moderating this place better, just because this is the internet and people think they are "anonymous" doesn't make racist shit fly. Most forums I visit don't allow racial attacks, yet an university related forum thinks it's alright? Do you even know what an university stands for? But then again, maybe it's just because it's remarks against Asians, perhaps if some dudes come trolling every thread with racial remarks about whites some of you will start getting butthurt.
well sauceking i'm sorry to burst your bubble.. but i think you could tell i'm asian.. you just don't want to think i am what i am..
and no i'm not judging you nor do i ever plan to.. i'm merely suggesting that you're better off and more likely to make a difference by telling people in real life as opposed to people on a forum.. no one takes the internet seriously and you're not going to have people take you serious on a forum either.. especially on such topic.. so you're just essentially wasting your time..=)
Actually it is kinda hard to tell if you're Asian or not when you basically embrace racist attitudes towards your own damn race. I don't want to think you are what you are? Huh? I could care less what you are, it's just disappointing to see self-loathing. How am I the one who's "still in HS" for standing up to negative Asian stereotypes? Y'all buggin for real. This is my last post in this community, peace.
Triple, just watch what you say bro. Karma's a bitch.
sauceking, maybe the people on this forum do take their racist jokes too far sometimes... and for someone who is new or isn't a regular on this forum, I can see why you would find their comments offensive. I know Triple may seem like an ass but there's a reason he's not banned. It's hard to tell when people are joking but we've met Triple before and I can tell you that you shouldn't believe everything (or anything) this guy says =P
And trust me, these people are not two-faced... whatever they say on this forum they will probably say in real-life too. But of course you'd find that they like to joke around and you honestly shouldn't take them too seriously.
I agree that racist comments shouldn't always be shrugged off as jokes, but seriously... just take a chill pill!
This is what I think of when I read sauceking's posts:
Seriously though dude, you need to lighten the fuck up. This is an internet forum, not real life. One of the joys of posting on an internet forum is anonymity.
I don't see how it could be construed as true racism, when it's said between people who are friendly in real life. It's like when I used to call my latin friend a spic. Sure he kifed my ass from time to time, but we were buddies! He visited me in the hospital, and played pretend like he was smothering me with a pillow, until the nurse jokingly pulled him off of me. It's all in good fun!
Actually it is kinda hard to tell if you're Asian or not when you basically embrace racist attitudes towards your own damn race. I don't want to think you are what you are? Huh? I could care less what you are, it's just disappointing to see self-loathing. How am I the one who's "still in HS" for standing up to negative Asian stereotypes? Y'all buggin for real. This is my last post in this community, peace.
Triple, just watch what you say bro. Karma's a bitch.
I don't see how it could be construed as true racism, when it's said between people who are friendly in real life. It's like when I used to call my latin friend a spic. Sure he kifed my ass from time to time, but we were buddies! He visited me in the hospital, and played pretend like he was smothering me with a pillow, until the nurse jokingly pulled him off of me. It's all in good fun!
Riiiggghhtt. Your logic is so off its appalling. What you are your friends do in your house does not concern me. Hell you can be Neo-Nazi's for all I care, just get that crap off of a public SFU Forum. This isn't just between you and your buddys, not everyone that visits these forums are your "chums" or understand you sense of humor so its offensive.
If Triple was directing his comments at a certain "friend", your argument would be more plausible. His statements have been generalizations. I'm pretty sure I'm the only one that has said anything about his jokes, it's all been one sided. He's not funny. If this was talkKKK or talkMorro&Friends, I wouldn't care. It's talk SFU, and it's obvious that SFU has a large Asian population, and not all of them are your "buddys" who do not care about being racially degraded. Don't tell me to chill, I'm not having some dude who thinks he's a real funny guy make generalizations about my race without giving him my piece of mind.
I'm Asian, but it doesn't matter what race you are. Racism exists in every color of the whole mother fucking rainbow. The internet can teach you a lesson of being more aware of the environment. People are not always what they seem. At SFU or wherever I go, I'm paranoid. This is our burden as human beings. Wild animals eat each other. Humans have gotten past that and we're now pursuing a higher level of society. It makes you a more tolerant person if you're ready to accept that the next person you meet, may be a big racist prick. You just always have to remember that each person is their own master. Life is too short, let em say what they truly wish to say. It's a part of life. Just be glad we're living in a more tolerant age.
Racist individuals are ignorant, that's all. Narrow minded fools who always run out of things to say first. They couldn't hold a conversation as they are always trying to think of a way to insult the next ethnic person. Isn't that right Triple? (He's probably googling "list of racial slurs")
It's talk SFU, and it's obvious that SFU has a large Asian population, and not all of them are your "buddys" who do not care about being racially degraded. Don't tell me to chill, I'm not having some dude who thinks he's a real funny guy make generalizations about my race without giving him my piece of mind.
You have a point, but it's hard to respect your opinions when you talk like a gangstuhhh rapper and make physical threats.
Actually, this is a private SFU forum. It's not run by SFU or anyone who works for SFU.
Also: My post was a joke, as well. Take note: If someone posts something that seems outrageous, it's safe to assume that it's intentionally so. You really love being a victim, don't you? You're willing to look past a VERY obvious tongue-in-cheek vibe, so you can get righteous and bunch up your pretty pink panties.
You're free to dislike the humor, but don't be so deliberately obtuse as to claim that you can't tell that it's in jest. Saying "guys, even in a joking tone, I think some of this stuff is over the line," is fine. But I just don't believe that you are seriously so out of touch that you think the comments in this thread are for real. I think pretending to think that is just an easy excuse to get high and mighty.
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bwahaha.. oopz.. :embarassed:
The reason why there seems to be less white women attracted to asian guys is because girls in general are attracted to alpha males, and asians in many cases look the complete opposite ;) I believe its mostly attributed to the way we're brought up, if you look in magazines, turn on a TV, watch movies, any media that portrays beauty and tells us what is beautiful, they're all white, as you grow up you're unconciously fed all this since western media has been the dominant and leading trend setter for glam
personally, i went to a high school where the majority of every1 was white, and iuno why but just growing the majority of my friends weren't asian, the ones I spent time with at least, and I get a lot of attention from white women because I'm confident
A lot of asian guys are quite shy, which may lead to less interaction with people/ less friends - especially outside of their circle of asian friends, which often correlates directly with lack of confidence, and as long as you're confident, ppl will be attracted to you, not just women
Proof of my claim is that growing up and goign to school, especially the younger ages like preschool and early grade school, all the girls that I liked and in turn liked me back were in fact white, and when ur a kid ur innocent and you don't put up walls and try and fit into what is 'socailly acceptable'
which is why you see that in cities with a high influx of cbc or abc's - vancouver, san fran, new york etc, you see so many more interacial dating between asian men and white women because asian culture is much more exposed, give it time, every1 will eventually be beige
that being said.. it doesnt always hold true
its all about finding a right fit, some girls vag's are tighter some are wider some are deeper etc etc, if your wang curves in the right places and hits the right spots and is a good fit, size definately goes out the window
if a girl can get off with her fingers, she can get off with ur dick, unless ur dick is the size of my pinky
There's a physical imperitive in an aroused woman to be "full," and a psychological one, as well. Just as a guy enjoys deep-throat even though pure nerve-analasys would suggest that he'd only like getting head.
All this "motion of the ocean" stuff is largely an excuse made by insecure men. Size is most definitely not everything, not even close. But it does matter.
if a guy can't go all the way in, it doesnt make him a bad lover
ive spoke with enough women to know that they would prefer a guy who might be smaller but knew how to fuck then an oversized meathead that just jabs it in
I agree that size does matter, but not to the extent that most guys feel it does, espcially if theyre small, theres no sense in feeling inadequate about something thats not in their control
Mod edit: Try to bear in mind that the vast, vast majority of this thread is said tongue-in-cheek. This forum meets up semi-regularly, and most of the posters like each other. I appreciate that as a newer poster you might not be able to tell jokes from serious comments, but regardless: any more physical threats, and you're gone.
dude you don't have to act tough online to compensate for your small penis, accepting it is the first step.
and you don't need to see my face to find me at campus, just look for the white guy with the shaved head and the black swastika tattoo on the back of my head... i don't think anyone else at SFU has the same thing
WHATUP G
Morro - are you really tryna play the stuff that Triple says are jokes? He pretty much pops in every thread to comment something negative towards the entire Asian race. Oh wait, maybe it's cause you're also white? Start moderating this place better, just because this is the internet and people think they are "anonymous" doesn't make racist shit fly. Most forums I visit don't allow racial attacks, yet an university related forum thinks it's alright? Do you even know what an university stands for? But then again, maybe it's just because it's remarks against Asians, perhaps if some dudes come trolling every thread with racial remarks about whites some of you will start getting butthurt.
and no i'm not judging you nor do i ever plan to.. i'm merely suggesting that you're better off and more likely to make a difference by telling people in real life as opposed to people on a forum.. no one takes the internet seriously and you're not going to have people take you serious on a forum either.. especially on such topic.. so you're just essentially wasting your time..=)
Triple, just watch what you say bro. Karma's a bitch.
And trust me, these people are not two-faced... whatever they say on this forum they will probably say in real-life too. But of course you'd find that they like to joke around and you honestly shouldn't take them too seriously.
I agree that racist comments shouldn't always be shrugged off as jokes, but seriously... just take a chill pill!
the other half, yeah ok maybe hahaha
Well in that case you better watch your.... feet? cuz your guna land in hell for threatening people! lol
oh yeah
good riddance
don't need people who type 'Y'all buggin' in this forum, lol
Seriously though dude, you need to lighten the fuck up. This is an internet forum, not real life. One of the joys of posting on an internet forum is anonymity.
If Triple was directing his comments at a certain "friend", your argument would be more plausible. His statements have been generalizations. I'm pretty sure I'm the only one that has said anything about his jokes, it's all been one sided. He's not funny. If this was talkKKK or talkMorro&Friends, I wouldn't care. It's talk SFU, and it's obvious that SFU has a large Asian population, and not all of them are your "buddys" who do not care about being racially degraded. Don't tell me to chill, I'm not having some dude who thinks he's a real funny guy make generalizations about my race without giving him my piece of mind.
Racist individuals are ignorant, that's all. Narrow minded fools who always run out of things to say first. They couldn't hold a conversation as they are always trying to think of a way to insult the next ethnic person. Isn't that right Triple? (He's probably googling "list of racial slurs")
Also: My post was a joke, as well. Take note: If someone posts something that seems outrageous, it's safe to assume that it's intentionally so. You really love being a victim, don't you? You're willing to look past a VERY obvious tongue-in-cheek vibe, so you can get righteous and bunch up your pretty pink panties.
You're free to dislike the humor, but don't be so deliberately obtuse as to claim that you can't tell that it's in jest. Saying "guys, even in a joking tone, I think some of this stuff is over the line," is fine. But I just don't believe that you are seriously so out of touch that you think the comments in this thread are for real. I think pretending to think that is just an easy excuse to get high and mighty.