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Help me with my next move...
So I went out with this woman on Friday night. We had a great time. We have alot in common. Just went and had a drink at this bar. Toward the end, got the check and she offered to give me some cash, but I told her no way, but thanks for offering. I thought that was definitely cool of her.
We walk outside, and she asks me if I was available the next evening (last night), so I was like yeah, sure. I give her a hug, and I walk toward my car. She turns around and is like, "that's not too fast is it?" I say, "Nah, don't worry about it. I'd like to see you again." We part for the night.
The next day rolls around, and she calls me mid-afternoon to cancel. She says she wants to spend some time with her mother that evening, because she was sick and didn't want her to be lonely. I don't take offense to this at all, because she told me during the date what's going on with her mom. It's a potentially serious condition (can't remember the name), so of course, I'm like - yeah, please don't worry about the date. Another time, no worries. She says, "yeah, maybe next week after work or next weekend." I just say ok, enjoy your time with your mom, ttyl."
What should be my next move? Should I call her again to ask for another date, wait for her?
We walk outside, and she asks me if I was available the next evening (last night), so I was like yeah, sure. I give her a hug, and I walk toward my car. She turns around and is like, "that's not too fast is it?" I say, "Nah, don't worry about it. I'd like to see you again." We part for the night.
The next day rolls around, and she calls me mid-afternoon to cancel. She says she wants to spend some time with her mother that evening, because she was sick and didn't want her to be lonely. I don't take offense to this at all, because she told me during the date what's going on with her mom. It's a potentially serious condition (can't remember the name), so of course, I'm like - yeah, please don't worry about the date. Another time, no worries. She says, "yeah, maybe next week after work or next weekend." I just say ok, enjoy your time with your mom, ttyl."
What should be my next move? Should I call her again to ask for another date, wait for her?
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How did you feel about her asking you out right after the date and for the very next night? (Sounds like you liked it, but just asking).
The other part felt - well, maybe she likes me. This isn't bad.
Of course, a small part of me was annoyed when she canceled, but don't pin me as being heartless here. I totally understand her situation.
Give it like two days and then call :)
i wouldn’t really mention the date thing cuz that would seem to take away emphasis u called to see how she’s doing and how her mom is doing, emphasis being on calling for her not yourself - and most definitely she will bring up the date
i hope that makes sense
I wouldn't really bring up the date tho...unless she brought it up. Try just talking to her over the phone too if you guys can't meet up yet. I think you can tell a lot about each other even just over the phone.
If she's interested in you, I'm sure she'll initiate something. You seem to have already shown your interest.