Dating Tips
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Hi,
what are the best things to do when dating a girl the first time? And what are the absolute DONT's? I think that when dating a girl you should leave your college life away so DO NOT talk about college.. show some interest in her and try to be original and nice.
I would like to know from you what are further tips useful to be successful in a dating :D thank you! -
Why not talk about college? It's what you do and people are usually interested in that. It's probably best not to talk about too many negatives right at the beginning but that's true no matter what the topic. If college is something you have in common it's a good place ot begin.
Girls want to know how you think and if you have compatible interests. Talk about things that interest you and then ask her opinion. And then listen to what she has to say. I'd stay away from stereotypical guy topics, like sports and cars, unless she indicates a genuine interest.
I wouldn't worry too much about being original. That sounds more like a script or routine than getting to know you conversation. But yes, be nice. And don't comment, look at or otherwise attend to other girls while you're with her. -
thats some really good advice plumley! when you'r with a girl, knowing how to talk and maintain a conversation goes a longggg way. especially if your not good looking, cuz then you have to impress her with your personality and intelligence. seirously though, try to be freindly and make sure have some go to topics in mind in case the conversation dies... and always have a plan of what you're planning to do on the date so that she actually has a good time too.. umm im out of ideas now i wonder what the girls have to say about this
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Yes, be yourself and know yourself. Talking to impress is the BIGGEST turnoff ever! The best way to be casual about it is to hangout in groups at first and let everyone help you on being that real conversationalist.
Then, when you're ready ask that special girl out for coffee and see what happens. But, always keep it real. -
Honestly, the best thing to talk about is something the two of you have in common. Sure, asking the girl to talk about herself is nice but nobody wants to sit and yammer on about themselves all night (well, most people anyhow :P).
Just ask her if she has any hobbies, what kind of movies she likes, etc. Talking about college is a great source of topics - you can talk about current classes, majors, exactly HOW many papers you're dreading doing and such :D
Have fun, be yourself and don't stress out on it. -
yea basically jus be yourself, its not attractive when u are trying too hard.. u jus seem too fake that way, other donts are: dont be loud and obnoxious and dont act all hardcore even if u think are.. cuz we dont really care
but of course if ur naturally sweet and charming u got it made:) -
Mike Jones said:especially if your not good looking, cuz then you have to impress her with your personality and intelligence. seirously though
Seriously though, you're not far off. So many good looking people, male and female, try to cruise by on their looks. Personality and intelligence are sooo much more important. And you know something? The nicer and more fun a guy is, the better he looks and the sexier I find him. Funny how that personality thing works. :) -
Do have fun and laugh
Do be yourself
Do talk about common ground
Do open doors for the lady
Do pick up the tab
Don't chew with your mouth open
Don't try to fondle everything on the first date
Don't talk politics or religion
Don't talk about other girls
Don't watch the TV at the restaurant
Don't tell off colored jokes
Just a few suggestions. The key to a good date is to enjoy yourself and to enjoy the company you are with. -
Dress to impress
Don't be arrogant
Be confident (not arrogant)
Don't talk down
Smile as much as possible
Act a little bit nervous most girls like that I've noticed
Don't assume you're going to have sex
Be nice.
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