I went on a couple of dates with this gal and realized i cant stand her. Told her I hated kids and that did the trick. Later that night she broke it off and telling gals i hate kids works almost everytime.
uh yeah, in all my experience honesty is always, ALWAYS the best policy. If the situation does blow up in your face while you were telling the straight truth at least Jesus, Allah, Thor, The Devil, Poseidon, or the Incredible Hulk will have mercy on your soul!
I'm really bad at break ups so I feel where you're coming from...it's a lot better than my "avoidance" technique. Basically, if I lose interest in a girl I'm dating I divert my attention to other things start avoiding her. Theirs something in me that just can't stand to see the hurt if I said something like..."it's not working out" so I just move on and hope she'll forget me. Obviously it always blows up in my face but what can you do
unless you hang out with guys named zack, slater, and screech it's pretty juvenile to just act like a jackass until she breaks up with you. i think most adults would agree that it's better that you be upfront with what you have to say and cause a little bit of pain now than alot of pain later. i also think the difference between being a boy and a man is making the hard decision to tell somebody something they don't wanna hear (IN A RESPONSIBLE WAY) instead of running away from it and not saying anything at all.
There's no other way but say it straight up. Breaking up with someone is like slaughtering an animal, you want to make the death as quick and painless as possible. That way you guys might be able to remain as friends later on.
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u should just break it if u aint feelin it, no need to waste more time waiting for her to break it