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What intimidates you?

edited December 2007 in General
While reading the phone secks thread, I mean, hot voice thread, somehow I started thinking about what intimidates you.

Personally, being a shortish guy, girls that are taller than me reallllly intimidates me.

So, what intimidates you?
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  • edited December 2007
    hmm...
    anything... i'm extremely shy, haha.
    still duno how i got a girlfriend, lol
  • edited December 2007
    Girls with the "BITCH" look.
    Unless they're 5 feet tall.
  • edited December 2007
    ^Ive been told i have the "bitch" look at times

    ....im 5'2 tho....so i guess im not intimidating :(
  • edited December 2007
    baby e;19018 said:
    ^Ive been told i have the "bitch" look at times

    ....im 5'2 tho....so i guess im not intimidating :(
    yes you are, your breath is bahahah i'm so clever. anyways on topic,

    the nammer girls with the arrogant look. however i used to still approach them until i lost my interest in them since they're a too " fake " or superficial
  • edited December 2007
    baby e;19018 said:
    ^Ive been told i have the "bitch" look at times

    ....im 5'2 tho....so i guess im not intimidating :(
    Not something to be proud of.
  • edited December 2007
    nicole;19023 said:
    Not something to be proud of.
    What isn't, being 5'2?
  • IVTIVT
    edited December 2007
    ^ Being a bitch
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  • edited December 2007
    Who cares if people say i have a bitchy look??

    I dont take offense to it when people say it. Ive been told that i look kinda "bitchy" and snobby when i walk into a classroom or whatever, but then when people talk to me they see that im really nice and all that jazz. I didnt take offense when they told me that tho.

    I kinda like that i look a little bit bitchy :)

    I was in a group with another girl this semester and she said that people said that about her too. It doesnt mean that we really are bitchy. Hmmm, sometimes i am tho, lol.
  • edited December 2007
    Illicit man you are a funny guy. I seriously cracked up laughing when I saw that. But anyways, I like to be a little bit intimidating myself through a display of confidence. Honestly, the only thing that intimidates me about girls are the ones who are too energetic. They always have something quirky to say and are always too talkative so I can't really keep up with them. Other than that, I can look a hot girl right in the eyes no matter how gucci'd out she is because I know deep down they are the most insecure ones. Tall girls are big turn off too.
  • edited December 2007
    i get called the "cold bitch" by people cause i hardly smile.. even my dad and close friends say that if i don't talk.. i look really bitchy/intimidating.. not that i have a problem with it cause the people i hang out with know otherwise.. =)

    what intimidates me is when people stare at you without blinking longer than a normal eye contact.. it just irks me.. o.O"

    and IVT.. quit it before it gets on everybody's nerves.. =)
    because it's starting to get on mine..
  • edited December 2007
    siuying;19050 said:
    i get called the "cold bitch" by people cause i hardly smile.. even my dad and close friends say that if i don't talk.. i look really bitchy/intimidating.. not that i have a problem with it cause the people i hang out with know otherwise.. =)

    what intimidates me is when people stare at you without blinking longer than a normal eye contact.. it just irks me.. o.O"

    and IVT.. quit it before it gets on everybody's nerves.. =)
    because it's starting to get on mine..
    That deer in headlight look is sually just a case of guys checking you out/girls being jealous.
    That or theres something wrong with your hair
  • edited December 2007
    Kevin M.;19045 said:
    Tall girls are big turn off too.
    Haha well then... Maybe you're just intimidated by them (and me) because you're not tall enough ^_^

    Actually, I'm not THAT tall. Just tall for an asian girl HAHA.
  • edited December 2007
    baby e;19037 said:
    Who cares if people say i have a bitchy look??

    I dont take offense to it when people say it. Ive been told that i look kinda "bitchy" and snobby when i walk into a classroom or whatever, but then when people talk to me they see that im really nice and all that jazz. I didnt take offense when they told me that tho.

    I kinda like that i look a little bit bitchy :)

    I was in a group with another girl this semester and she said that people said that about her too. It doesnt mean that we really are bitchy. Hmmm, sometimes i am tho, lol.
    I can totally relate... back in high school when I met new people, a lot of them would tell me, "Wow, I had no idea you were so nice! I always thought you would be mean, that's why I was scared to talk to you." It surprises me every time, because I know, and my friends know, I'm a really friendly, easy-going person. And I'm not even the "popular" type... I hang out with the bookworms and I still get that! I think maybe it's cuz I'm shy... because I don't usually initiate conversation, people get the sense that I think I'm too good to talk to them... lol.

    Ummm... as for something that intimidates me... probably sarcasm. I'm really gullible... so I usually miss the joke and take things personally :embarassed:
  • edited December 2007
    my girlfriend is same height as me when she wears high heels... and im about 6 feet, lol
  • edited December 2007
    Triple;19070 said:
    my girlfriend is same height as me when she wears high heels... and im about 6 feet, lol
    haha WOW she's taller than me =D
    I'm almost as tall as my bf when I wear heels, but he's still taller. Same height as you too!
  • edited December 2007
    vonnie;19058 said:
    Haha well then... Maybe you're just intimidated by them (and me) because you're not tall enough ^_^

    Actually, I'm not THAT tall. Just tall for an asian girl HAHA.
    ok no she is tall from my judgement, i'm 5'8

    she could easily be 5'10. and i'm more intimidated by taller girls.

    yes i work out and i do have an above average athletic build and all, but height makes a difference, especially in reach distance and leverage when you're trying for a submission hold etc.

    shorter girls like baby e, not as much, so bring on the bitch look woman!
  • edited December 2007
    Women who are really really aggressive intimidate me. While it's good to have a woman who is willing to take action, there's still the part of me that likes the chase, as well as the "hard to get" aspect of particular girls. If you're too aggressive, there's no chase, and it's too easy, and also, it's just scary when girls get right to the point. It disturbs the natural order of things.
  • edited December 2007
    DaNoobie;19053 said:
    That deer in headlight look is sually just a case of guys checking you out/girls being jealous.
    That or theres something wrong with your hair
    but it's that kind of hollow creepy stare.. sort of like when people go into a trance or is hypnotized.. and even worse when they add on a smile.. very very irky.. =(
  • edited December 2007
    DaNoobie;19030 said:
    What isn't, being 5'2?
    That too, but usually when someone bolds a line of text it's what they're referring to.

    In my experience, I've found that girls with the super bitchy demeanor are really just insecure and looking for competition. I mean, I understand that some people can't help it...but from the girls I have talked with, they admit that they're ultimately sizing themselves up.

    I would rather look approachable IMO.
  • edited December 2007
    Hmm What intimidates me.......
    the bitchy look i get from ppl sometimes... 'comonn.. seriously, did i ruin your life or something to deserve that ?! lighten up ppl ... smile once in a while.
  • edited December 2007
    what the hell does super bitchy look like anyways
    just some media portrayal that everyone uses now? lol
  • edited December 2007
    ala Paris Hilton?
  • edited December 2007
    Triple;19132 said:
    what the hell does super bitchy look like anyways
    just some media portrayal that everyone uses now? lol
    HulkHoganClr.tif.jpg

    ?
  • edited December 2007
    nicole;19093 said:


    In my experience, I've found that girls with the super bitchy demeanor are really just insecure and looking for competition. I mean, I understand that some people can't help it...but from the girls I have talked with, they admit that they're ultimately sizing themselves up.
    Hmmm, well thats not me thankfully. I dont have the "bitchy" look on purpose....its not like i walk around and think to myself, "ok, try to look bitchy." Its just apparently a look that i have when i walk around.

    I know for a fact that im not insecure or looking for competition, but perhaps some girls that actually "try" to look bitchy feel that way.
  • edited December 2007
    I don't think anyone trys to look bitchy on purpose lol. I've talked to a few girls that I originally thought were bitchy, but they just turned out to be normal girls...and when I told them that I thought they were a bitch, they said OMG everyone always tells me that. go figure
  • edited December 2007
    ok girls wearing very revealing shirts intimidate me, haha
    So i had moved to surrey to richmond to live with my dad instead of my mom
    so i got a job here, made a good friend at the job.

    needed to meet more people, so he said theres a friend of his he wants me to meet we'd make a good couple or something. apparently im good looking and he told her that and she wanted to meet me, haha

    Anyways, we all go to a club, me, my friend, and 5 or 6 of his friends.
    There's another friend of his there, wearing a revealing top, i obviously can't help but stare, but trying not to, haha. Didn't say a word to her... until I was drunk, haha.

    Anyways, long story short, we ended up in my car at the end of the night ;)
    No not to have sex, she waited with me until my alcohol wore off so I could drive, haha.
    Anyways, three weeks later, we started dating, and been together now for over 10 months.

    so yeah, to get over the intimidation, drink alcohol!!
  • edited December 2007
    liquid courage. right on!
  • edited December 2007
    imelting;19164 said:
    liquid courage. right on!
    referring to the millions of little " bad boys " that he has in liquid form? or a pheromone?
  • edited December 2007
    hahah lols.. yes illicit you are a funny dude :D

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