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Lixie
edited October 2008 in General
I've always been fervently against anal sex. The pooper is really not meant for anything else other than POOP! I MEANT POOP! This doesn't mean I'm against gay dude--it's cool if they rub their cocks together and what not...

Anyway. Turns out the guy I'm seeing is into anal over anything else. He said it was "super". (Who the hell says "super"?) Most of the guys of my acquaintance have generally expressed disdain for butt sex, This is about the second guy I've met who's expressed over-the-top interest in butt sex.

My question is to the rest of you guys here: what do you think of butt sex?! And how important should it be when it comes to selective dating?
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  • primexx
    edited July 2008
    Lixie;33313 said:
    I've always been fervently against anal sex. The pooper is really not meant for anything else other than a penis.
    huh???
  • mrbubbles
    edited July 2008
    That some tight shit.

    In seriousness, when two people have absolute trust in each other, anything can happen. Openness in sex is good, but keep a standard at least.
    I too express somewhat disdain for butt sexin'. Shit comes out that hole. People are not homosexuals if they like anal, does he like it up the ass too?

    Tips
    Use rubbers if you two are not monogamous, an enema would help.
    If you have hair around your a-hole, shave or wax.
    Lots of lube, Astroglide if you are using rubber(KY is just too watery), if not, Vaseline.
    Start slow, with small objects if he's a big boy.
  • Broken Lizard
    edited July 2008
    eh I'd be hesitant to try

    friend of mine says his GF likes it but he hates it, lol
  • mrbubbles
    edited July 2008
    Triple;33322 said:

    friend of mine says his GF likes it but he hates it, lol
    No duh, think of the cleaning the guy has to do afterward.
  • Morro
    edited July 2008
    I'm into it if the girl's into it. I don't understand the whole thing where guys bug and badger the girl into trying it. Why would you want to do something to her that she will hate, and that will hurt her? I would have no curiosity about that, for the same reason that I have no curiosity about what it would be like to stab someone in the leg with a fire poker. (Mental note: Fire Poker could be a potential future porn name...)

    But if the lady is into it, I'm game. I guess I'm neutral. I have no intrinsic wish for buttsex, but no real aversion to it, either.

    It's easy to get into judgemental crap about how guys who are super into it are aggressive and secretly hate women and blah blah blah, but in general sex doesn't follow logical lines of that sort. There are plenty of strong, self-posessed women who enjoy light domination in the bedroom, and it doesn't mean they genuinely see themselves as subservient to men. That sort of pop-psychology just doesn't hold up.

    That said, it all depends on how he weights his own preferences versus yours. If he really likes it, and you hate it, and he keeps pushing and pushing you to try it against your wishes, that's a sign that he's a fuckhead.
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited July 2008
    I don't much care for it. I tried it with one of my exes, 'cause she hyped it up. It was pretty shitty.
  • Broken Lizard
    edited July 2008
    zzzzzzzzzzzzing
  • xxk1nky
    edited July 2008
    I used to always have a negative vibe about the whole anal thing up until I tried it with my ex-boyfriend. It's actually not that bad. It doesn't necessarily HURT -- it's more like an uncomfortable-but-not feeling. And guys love it. I've done it multiple times but after we split, I don't think I would ever do it again with anyone unless they really wanted it. And it's something I wouldn't do with just anyone either.
  • randomuser
    edited July 2008
    it doesnt have to be messy, if you're 'regular'. You kind of have to time it around certain cycles of your body if you catch my drift
  • IVTIVT
    edited July 2008
    randomuser;33346 said:
    You kind of have to time it around certain cycles of your body if you catch my drift
    this applies to vaginal sex as well :wink:
  • randomuser
    edited July 2008
    Thats true, but generally that only apples for 1/5 - 1/6 of the month, while the anal cycle of a healthy human being should be every day.
  • IVTIVT
    edited July 2008
    thanks for ruining two funny post with that serious biological cycle post
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited July 2008
    IVT;33349 said:
    this applies to vaginal sex as well :wink:
    Aren't you a virgin? How would you know whether that applies to vaginal sex, let alone butt-sex?
  • Makall
    edited July 2008
    Common knowledge.

    Urine comes out of the Vagina and Feces comes out of the Anus. Blood occasionally comes out of the Vagina as well. And the Anus is not meant to be expanded so thrusting a erect penis into a very tight Rectum would cause some bleeding.

    Blood and Urine/Feces mixing is not very... sanitary.

    The one other time Feces mixes with Blood is when you have Colon Cancer and you defecate Bloody Feces. Not very pleasant to see or know.
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited July 2008
    Sex during a woman's period isn't all that bad, as long as it's not super heavy. If you can deal with the smell and the sight of it, it's smooth sailing from there.
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited July 2008
    Makall;33385 said:
    Common knowledge.

    Urine comes out of the Vagina and Feces comes out of the Anus. Blood occasionally comes out of the Vagina as well. And the Anus is not meant to be expanded so thrusting a erect penis into a very tight Rectum would cause some bleeding.

    Blood and Urine/Feces mixing is not very... sanitary.

    The one other time Feces mixes with Blood is when you have Colon Cancer and you defecate Bloody Feces. Not very pleasant to see or know.
    Oh..and for the record, urine doesn't come out of the vagina. Off to "Intro to Human Anatomy"!
  • Lixie
    edited July 2008
    Makall;33385 said:
    Common knowledge.

    Urine comes out of the Vagina.
    So.... you go to SFU?

    Urine comes out of the urinary track. The only way urine can ever enter your vagina is if your vagina sucked it back up, or if you wipe from the back.

    WHICH NO LIVING OR BREATHING WOMAN EVER DOES, WIPING FROM THE BACK.
  • randomuser
    edited July 2008
    Makall;33385 said:
    Common knowledge.

    Urine comes out of the Vagina and Feces comes out of the Anus. Blood occasionally comes out of the Vagina as well. And the Anus is not meant to be expanded so thrusting a erect penis into a very tight Rectum would cause some bleeding.

    Blood and Urine/Feces mixing is not very... sanitary.

    The one other time Feces mixes with Blood is when you have Colon Cancer and you defecate Bloody Feces. Not very pleasant to see or know.
    Please do more research on anal sex, you are't going to necessarily cause any bleeding if you know what you are doing. Looks like someone didn't go to the taboo sex show :omg:
  • Morro
    edited July 2008
    Wait, wouldn't wiping from the FRONT be what does it? Wiping from back to front (from ass to bellybutton) would wipe urine away from the vagina, wouldn't it?

    Alright, I'm done thinking about this. =P
  • Broken Lizard
    edited July 2008
    he must love to ravage the hole, thus causing bleeding
  • siuying
    edited July 2008
    randomuser;33400 said:
    Please do more research on anal sex, you are't going to necessarily cause any bleeding if you know what you are doing. Looks like someone didn't go to the taboo sex show :omg:
    we should make this our next talksfu meetup/trip.. there seems to be a dire need to inform people of the facts here..=P and of course fun for those who have their facts straight..
  • IVTIVT
    edited July 2008
    randomuser seems to be an expert when it comes to taking it in the butt :wink:
  • mrbubbles
    edited July 2008
    Makall;33385 said:
    Common knowledge.

    Urine comes out of the Vagina and Feces comes out of the Anus. Blood occasionally comes out of the Vagina as well. And the Anus is not meant to be expanded so thrusting a erect penis into a very tight Rectum would cause some bleeding.

    Blood and Urine/Feces mixing is not very... sanitary.

    The one other time Feces mixes with Blood is when you have Colon Cancer and you defecate Bloody Feces. Not very pleasant to see or know.
    Someone haven't had anal sex before. Some dire education is needed to wake people like you up. You can't stay ignorant forever.
  • siuying
    edited July 2008
    IVT;33451 said:
    randomuser seems to be an expert when it comes to taking it in the butt :wink:
    hmm.. is the pun intended?
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited July 2008
    siuying;33450 said:
    we should make this our next talksfu meetup/trip.. there seems to be a dire need to inform people of the facts here..=P and of course fun for those who have their facts straight..
    Are you suggesting that we all have a big group anal sex orgy?
  • siuying
    edited July 2008
    no.. i'm suggesting it for educational purposes.. and if we are to ever to go i know i'll stay as a abiding spectator.. however i don't know about those into group anal sex orgy..
  • DaNoobie
    edited July 2008
    Magnificent_Bastard;33457 said:
    Are you suggesting that we all have a big group anal sex orgy?
    shes not suggesting it, shes demanding it
  • Broken Lizard
    edited July 2008
    shotgun anus
  • toast
    edited July 2008
    ppl, your anus is designed for stuff to come OUT of it, NOT IN

    ... butsex FTL
  • Lixie
    edited July 2008
    I want nothing to do with this.

    Except the monetary profits.

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