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No Strings Attached...

Mengs
edited March 2007 in General
What's your point of view on sex?
not in a relationship having sex, but just sex...

Like "hey, what's up? lets have sex, just casual sex"

you people still following me?

How many would be willing to go for it?
why and why not?
(though I can already answer this question for most guys :D )

Just curious... =)

Comments

  • noname
    edited February 2007
    I'm all for it. But I actually feel bad for doing it so I can't pull it off if I actually get to know the girl. On the other hand, if it's just some random girl I met at the bar I can probably pull it off without feeling too bad. I probably feel bad for playing it that way b/c of my upbringing.
  • imelting
    edited February 2007
    noname said:
    I'm all for it. But I actually feel bad for doing it so I can't pull it off if I actually get to know the girl. On the other hand, if it's just some random girl I met at the bar I can probably pull it off without feeling too bad. I probably feel bad for playing it that way b/c of my upbringing.
    prob along those lines, but i dont feel as bad, does take 2 to tango
  • Malakaiii
    edited February 2007
    I had a friend that I could go to at anytime for no strings attached sex. It was good fun for quite some time! Although I have to say that while it "scratches an itch," it's not nearly as satisfying as great sex with someone you love.
  • Steven
    edited February 2007
    If both sides have the same intention, which is just to have sex, then it should be alright.
  • Royal Gala
    edited February 2007
    No strings attached is good depending on where you're at in life and what your needs are, i guess
  • JohnnyBoy
    edited February 2007
    It's just Sex YO
  • random
    edited February 2007
    Since someone started this kind of discussion, im just wondering, does it matter if people nowadays are virgins or not? Any ideas? Or, does it vary with every single person?
  • imelting
    edited February 2007
    i dont believe they exist.
  • siuying
    edited February 2007
    imelting: virgins you mean? you just have to know where to look.. =)

    @mengs: if sex is what you need and all that you need and someone is willing to provide it i don't see the problem.. just don't whine about it afterwards because you asked for it..

    view on sex.. a need that needs to be satisfied period
  • imelting
    edited February 2007
    yea i kno, im just.. um jaded lol
  • BryanL
    edited February 2007
    No strings attached is always fun at the beginning but as weeks go by, things get complicated >.<
  • siuying
    edited February 2007
    noname said:
    On the other hand, if it's just some random girl I met at the bar I can probably pull it off without feeling too bad.
    now that i've read this for the second time.. i can't help but ask.. do all guys assume that random girls you meet in the bar are (for the lack of a better word to convey meaning) sluts? because for one i'll be offended if i go to a bar/club for a drink and get tagged being easy.. not to mention the dimwits who actually have enough balls to try their luck..
  • imelting
    edited February 2007
    i personally dont think so

    i think what he was tryn to get at was that, a random chick at a club/bar with only a physical connection, he prob wont feel as bad just having some nsa sex vs someone he might know/known to hav nsa sex
  • Magnificent_BastardMagnificent_Bastard
    edited February 2007
    Sex can wait! Masturbate!
    Abstinence is in the palm of your hand.


    I thought this was going to be a discussion on our love for everybody's favorite boy-band...

    nas.jpg
  • Pro
    edited February 2007
    "if you want it, here's my heart..... no stings attached"
  • baby e
    edited February 2007
    ^^^^Why would u be considered a slut if you go to a bar?? That makes no sense to me. Maybe if you constantly leave with a different guy each nite. I go to clubs/bars every now and then and im NOT a slut. :)
  • siuying
    edited February 2007
    lol @ MB.. just bring the sexyback.. we can do without the rest.. =)
  • shadysimon
    edited February 2007
    Magnificent_Bastard said:
    Sex can wait! Masturbate!
    Abstinence is in the palm of your hand.


    I thought this was going to be a discussion on our love for everybody's favorite boy-band...

    nas.jpg
    that is brilliant
  • little_asian_angel
    edited March 2007
    no strings attached are fun at first... or even friends with benefits are fun for a little while... then comes the awkwardnesss and feelings... then friendship fades away. something I DON'T suggest if you see the person at work or at school often.

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