@bufli: okay fine.. since both you and illicit watched it too.. i'll give ugly truth a try after i finish antichrist (so i can laugh off the horrific images) and see if i can spot your "ugly truth" reply to determine if you really are shallow and a dick.. =P
@bufli: okay fine.. since both you and illicit watched it too.. i'll give ugly truth a try after i finish antichrist (so i can laugh off the horrific images) and see if i can spot your "ugly truth" reply to determine if you really are shallow and a dick.. =P
@bufli: okay fine.. since both you and illicit watched it too.. i'll give ugly truth a try after i finish antichrist (so i can laugh off the horrific images) and see if i can spot your "ugly truth" reply to determine if you really are shallow and a dick.. =P
Wow, so the OP got a date after all--or maybe was too embarrassed to admit that she is still dateless.
I was going to reveal the BIGGEST dating turn off, too... for guys and girls.
I thought the OP might just be simply SOCIALLY AWKWARD. Being socially awkward is usually only cute when someone is stylish and looks like a bomb shell--which the OP admittedly wrote that she is not, and does not.
Anyhoo, this being university and SFU and all that, I'm sure she found someone just as socially awkward, and now the two are on their way to teaching each other some awesome rites of passage--first kiss, sex, boobs, penises and all that jazz.
"like they say... chicks have it easy... they just gotta show up :P"
girls unless they are attractive don't have it easier. guys can just develop their personality, confidence, social value, etc and there will girls who will be attracted eg the unattractive guy and the hot girls whereas you rarely see it the other way around.
However, I believe any women can get a guy but it depends on her standards.
^ are you kidding me? if u honestly believe girls have it harder then guys at getting relationships then you must not get out enough or something... cuz reality couldn't be further from that claim...
^ I said that girls can get into a relationship easier than a guy if she has lower standards. i still believe guys would have it easier IF they have the confidence and actually approach girls because by numbers alone, they have a very high chance of getting a relationship. however, quite a few guys are too afraid to approach girls and thus = no relationship. Also, in terms of probability alone, there are a higher percentage of girls wanting relationships compared to guys. For girls, its harder to get a guy to commit to a relationship. A lot of the guys at university would be focusing on solely their school work and thus would not be dating = less competition.
im gonna have to disagree. guys can focus on school/work but i very much doubt any of them would pass off a girl that they can tell is clearly interested in them (unless shes severely unattractive from their point of view)
u just said it urself ... unless a chick lowers her standards a guy can have all the confidence in the world but if he lacks in other departments (for example looks) his odds of getting with a girl are slim
actually... i feel for the guys too.. girls these days can be quite materialistic.. and in most instances.. if a guy doesn't have a car.. isn't good looking.. doesn't have disposable income... you're pretty much out of luck.. and this isn't an exhaustive list by all means as other requirements could be tagged on depending on the girl..
that's not to say we girls have it easy.. we have our share of problems in relationships too.. just not in this sense.. and i'm against lowering standards unless your standards are way over the top and seriously needs some self-reflection..
Haha well let's just say that you should go to the free first sessions of ballroom dancing =P
I know I could be flaked....and i feel so bad for those girls....so I'm keeping worst-case-scenerios in mind while keeping my chin up =P
Who has it harder? It really depends on the people, honestly. Everyone is right cuz i know a lot of diff ppl and some fit in one profile while others fit in the other. I do, however, think that guys have the upperhand because they are expected to do the asking out, etc. It doesn't mean they have it harder or easier. Also, girls tend to have stronger feelings more quickly that guys do. It doesn't take that much for a girl to want to ask a guy out. However, guys don't fall so easily and like to have fun so if a guy likes a girl enough to ask her out, it would mean something for the relationship to come.
Haha well let's just say that you should go to the free first sessions of ballroom dancing =P
I know I could be flaked....and i feel so bad for those girls....so I'm keeping worst-case-scenerios in mind while keeping my chin up =P
Who has it harder? It really depends on the people, honestly. Everyone is right cuz i know a lot of diff ppl and some fit in one profile while others fit in the other. I do, however, think that guys have the upperhand because they are expected to do the asking out, etc. It doesn't mean they have it harder or easier. Also, girls tend to have stronger feelings more quickly that guys do. It doesn't take that much for a girl to want to ask a guy out. However, guys don't fall so easily and like to have fun so if a guy likes a girl enough to ask her out, it would mean something for the relationship to come.
do u honestly think guys only ask girls out cuz they like them and want a relationship? lets be realistic... a lot of guys out there have their own agenda and its nowhere hear happy ending for the girl...lol
Come over to the Computer Science department! Tons of single guys here who'll gladly explain to you how dynamic optimality for splay trees work! We'll also show you our Star Wars collection!
actually... i feel for the guys too.. girls these days can be quite materialistic.. and in most instances.. if a guy doesn't have a car.. isn't good looking.. doesn't have disposable income... you're pretty much out of luck..
actually... i feel for the guys too.. girls these days can be quite materialistic.. and in most instances.. if a guy doesn't have a car.. isn't good looking.. doesn't have disposable income... .
check..
..Check... ......CHECK.
EFF TEE DUBO YUUUUU
jokes aside, i'd have to say i'd look for the same thing in a girl and most guys would agree on this with me
no.. because different people have different standards to physical attractiveness.. beauty in eyes of the beholder (in its true intent) was not meant to be genetic discriminant..
wweeellllll... you assigned a measurement to the body part.. and the 12" doesn't leave much room for contesting.. so you either have it or you don't.. even if you're just a cm shy from a twelve incher..:tongue:
Funny how so many people like to follow the gender presets--no wonder there are a lot of singles on here.
I'm currently dating a guy who's still getting out of debt, and isn't much of a looker. He owns two cars, that's about all that's going for him.
There are tons of people out there dating for the company and stimulating conversation instead of money, looks, and social standing. What good is money and looks when you're sitting across a table for two from the guy in absolute awkward silence?
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@eva: congrats? =)
I was going to reveal the BIGGEST dating turn off, too... for guys and girls.
I thought the OP might just be simply SOCIALLY AWKWARD. Being socially awkward is usually only cute when someone is stylish and looks like a bomb shell--which the OP admittedly wrote that she is not, and does not.
Anyhoo, this being university and SFU and all that, I'm sure she found someone just as socially awkward, and now the two are on their way to teaching each other some awesome rites of passage--first kiss, sex, boobs, penises and all that jazz.
Good on you, Eva.
i got asked out, so no bf yet but it's still way better than before =)
Lixie, i'm not socially awkward. He's not socially awkward.
Trust me o.o
btw, how did you meet him? Did he just talk up to you and ask you out, talk casually with you and then ask you out, met in class, etc.
girls unless they are attractive don't have it easier. guys can just develop their personality, confidence, social value, etc and there will girls who will be attracted eg the unattractive guy and the hot girls whereas you rarely see it the other way around.
However, I believe any women can get a guy but it depends on her standards.
if u honestly believe girls have it harder then guys at getting relationships then you must not get out enough or something... cuz reality couldn't be further from that claim...
u just said it urself ... unless a chick lowers her standards a guy can have all the confidence in the world but if he lacks in other departments (for example looks) his odds of getting with a girl are slim
that's not to say we girls have it easy.. we have our share of problems in relationships too.. just not in this sense.. and i'm against lowering standards unless your standards are way over the top and seriously needs some self-reflection..
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I know I could be flaked....and i feel so bad for those girls....so I'm keeping worst-case-scenerios in mind while keeping my chin up =P
Who has it harder? It really depends on the people, honestly. Everyone is right cuz i know a lot of diff ppl and some fit in one profile while others fit in the other. I do, however, think that guys have the upperhand because they are expected to do the asking out, etc. It doesn't mean they have it harder or easier. Also, girls tend to have stronger feelings more quickly that guys do. It doesn't take that much for a girl to want to ask a guy out. However, guys don't fall so easily and like to have fun so if a guy likes a girl enough to ask her out, it would mean something for the relationship to come.
lets be realistic... a lot of guys out there have their own agenda and its nowhere hear happy ending for the girl...lol
check and check
fml
..Check...
......CHECK.
EFF TEE DUBO YUUUUU
jokes aside, i'd have to say i'd look for the same thing in a girl and most guys would agree on this with me
now stop checking yourself off the list.. cause it doesn't automatically make you an eligible bachelor.. =P
:teeth:
let's not get into genetic discrimination now..
lol
wweeellllll... you assigned a measurement to the body part.. and the 12" doesn't leave much room for contesting.. so you either have it or you don't.. even if you're just a cm shy from a twelve incher..:tongue:
speaking of attractive
oh that just made this thread a 100 times better lol
I'm currently dating a guy who's still getting out of debt, and isn't much of a looker. He owns two cars, that's about all that's going for him.
There are tons of people out there dating for the company and stimulating conversation instead of money, looks, and social standing. What good is money and looks when you're sitting across a table for two from the guy in absolute awkward silence?